I remember the exact day I decided that I didn’t want a full-time job. It was the day E rolled over for the first time. It was an accomplishment that took two weeks of sleepless nights to achieve, and I wasn’t there to see it.
Instead, Mrs. Laura saw it first. When I picked up E from daycare, she excitedly told me all about it. While my face was smiling on the outside, my heart was breaking on the inside. All I could think was, “I should have been there.”
Ok yes, I know my son won’t remember that I wasn’t around for the first time he rolled over. But I will. And yes, I know that I could have just as easily been at the grocery store or the gym when it happened. But I wasn’t. Instead I was working, and I didn’t even have a shot at seeing it.
Sitting up like a boss.
On that day, something in my brain shifted. I went from the gal who was DYING to get back to work after only a month of maternity leave, to the mom who drug herself into the office every day feeling guilty and full of regret. I had to change.
And so change I did. I’m over-the-moon excited to announce that I’ve taken a part-time social media coordinator position with the Mount Saint Vincent Home. I get to keep doing the type of work that I love, stay in the nonprofit world, and spend more days a week with my son than at an office. Oh, and did I mention that it’s only a MILE from my house? 3 minute commute. Booyah. It couldn’t be more perfect.
So, cheers 2015. You’re a new year with new adventures, and I can’t wait to get started.*
*I’d like to take a moment to mention how truly awesome my husband is. He’s supported me through this whole thing, figured out all the finances, and has been a strong voice of encouragement when I question myself and my abilities as a parent. I never thought we’d be in a position where we could afford for me to go part-time, but here we are. And I’m sincerely thankful.
Congrats on the new job! We’ll miss you but I can bet you’ll have a great time being more of a stay at home mom 🙂
Thanks, Jennie! Don’t worry, I’ll be around for lunch at the Museum from time to time. Me and the little bro will definitely stop by to say hi!
What a perfect fit for you! And for E and P! I’m thrilled for you. Can’t wait to hear all about it. Also, my mom volunteered there for some time. It’s a special place.
I’m really excited about MSV. I’ve heard nothing but positive things, and I think the work is going to be extremely rewarding. Best of everything… I couldn’t be more lucky!
That’s great Tara! Congrats on being able to spend more time with the little man 🙂
Thanks, Mel!
Tara, congratulations on finding something that fulfills your family’s needs. You must be thrilled to have such a commute!! And better yet I am sure E will be thrilled too!
SO excited. Peter is super jealous.
Awesome! Way to go. Proud of you!